Help me please, I'm having an ethical dilemma and I can't stand it.
It started on Craigslist (of course). I put up an ad in "women seeking men" and a million guys replied. One stood out. …

I'm about to graduate from grad school, which is great, but I've got a bit of a problem.
I've been commuting between two cities (4.5 hours apart) for almost two years, every week, because when …

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A couple of weeks ago, the husband of a woman that I know tangentially just didn't come home. After leaving her freaking out for a few days and calling the police, …

My boyfriend and I packed our things and moved from Florida to his hometown in Connecticut about six months ago — on the whole, it was a good move. We both hated the south and …

My partner and I are planning to get married next year. But the fact is, we both hate wearing jewelry, and neither of us wants to wear a ring for the rest of our lives. …

Last year I broke up with my long-term live-in boyfriend. We had been together through a volatile period on both of our lives with financial ups and downs for both of us. When the dust …

I have what I would guess is a pretty common problem for spouses of creative types. I believe that my sweet husband A is suffering from depression. He believes that any depression he feels is …

I'm writing to you today about a very delicate situation. I'm totally lost as to what, if anything, I can do. I really need your help.
Here's a little background: I have a sister who I …

My boss is a lovely human being. He cares about his employees, hosts a kick-ass holiday party every year, and is really a good man. But all his good cheer can't erase the fact that …

Dear Sars,
My partner and I wouldn't win any awards for housekeeping, but our house is clean enough — it's not filthy, unhygienic, or unsafe. We're not going to be ambushed on any house-cleaning reality shows …