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The Tomato Nation advice column addresses your questions on etiquette, grammar, romance, and pet misbehavior. Ask The Readers about books or fashion today!

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The Vine: January 9, 2001
January 9, 2001 – 2:54 PM | No Comment

Sarah,
I’m dating a guy whom I’d been friends with for over a year before we got together. I enjoy his company on a level that has previously been unknown to me. He’s an amazing guy: …

The Vine: January 5, 2001
January 5, 2001 – 1:30 PM | No Comment

Hi Sarah,Over the summer I met a boy. His name is Ben. Ben and I started spending time together and our personalities really clicked. I felt comfortable around him quicker than I usually do around …

The Vine: January 4, 2001
January 4, 2001 – 11:54 AM | No Comment

Hi Sarah –Okay, here’s the trouble. Online romance. A couple of years ago I started corresponding with a woman about 1,000 miles away. She’s gorgeous, smart, funny, amiable, aligned in politics. We e-mailed every day …

The Vine: January 3, 2001
January 3, 2001 – 11:21 AM | No Comment

Dear Sarah,I have a feeling this is something I have to decide for myself, but I’m
definitely torn on what to do.
I’m currently enrolled in a master’s degree program here in New York.
Due to money issues, …

The Vine: December 29, 2000
December 29, 2000 – 11:08 PM | No Comment

Hi!
Since most of my friends are by now bored with hearing the same whining from me all the time, it is your turn now.
I don’t have sex. That really bothers me. The last time I …

The Vine: December 28, 2000
December 28, 2000 – 11:07 PM | No Comment

Hey Sars –
This is a question I pretty much know the answer to.I’m planning my wedding, and I pretty much have the guest list in place.There is only one question – should I invite my …

The Vine: December 21, 2000
December 21, 2000 – 10:46 PM | No Comment

Sarah,
Considering that I’m non-religious and if I were to be religious, I’d be Jewish, Christmas isn’t usually an issue. However, this year, I’m having a problem. I asked my boyfriend if we were going to …

The Vine: December 20, 2000
December 20, 2000 – 4:06 PM | No Comment

Dear Sars,
I just read George Bailey’s letter, and I remember when I was in high school and was overwhelmed I went to a school counselor.I don’t know about her school’s teachers/counselors, but mine were pretty …

The Vine: December 19, 2000
December 19, 2000 – 3:53 PM | No Comment

Dear Sars,
You’ve helped me before. I’m a big fan. Your DC recaps slay me.
I am, right now, at age seventeen, going through a very stressful time.The problem is not necessarily the stress, but what the …

The Vine: December 15, 2000
December 15, 2000 – 8:31 PM | No Comment

Sarah,
I don’t know that there’s an answer to this one, other than quit feeling guilty.But I’m looking for suggestions.
I once had a business partner who rapidly became a very close friend.Too close.Smothering close.I have a …