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Articles tagged with: etiquette

The Vine: October 5, 2007
October 5, 2007 – 1:17 PM | 83 Comments

Hi Sars,
I am getting married in about a month and am having a hell of a time coming up with gifts for my bridesmaids. There are five of them. If I didn’t have to take …

The Vine: August 22, 2007
August 22, 2007 – 9:07 AM | No Comment

Sars,
 
I would appreciate your advice on an unpleasant situation involving my parents and their dog.
 
A few years ago, when it was evident that neither my brother nor I would be living at home …

The Vine: August 21, 2007
August 21, 2007 – 9:58 AM | No Comment

Dear Sars,
 
My boyfriend and I have attended about five weddings this past year where one of his friends was the groom. They were all fancy and we also were invited to the rehearsal dinner for …

The Vine: August 17, 2007
August 17, 2007 – 2:12 PM | 36 Comments

Dear Sars,
Last weekend, I went over to a friend’s house to help her pack up her things — “Minnie” is getting divorced and moving out of the apartment she shared with her husband, and …

The Vine: August 10, 2007
August 10, 2007 – 9:16 AM | 77 Comments

Hey Sars,
 
I’m buying my first home and I wanted to ask you a question about real estate etiquette. My real estate agent is a nice person who hasn’t put any pressure on me at …

The Vine: August 7, 2007
August 7, 2007 – 11:25 AM | No Comment

Hi Sars,
I met a guy through an online dating site, and we emailed once or twice a week for a few weeks. Two weeks ago, we decided to meet in person and see if we …

The Vine: July 18, 2007
July 18, 2007 – 2:46 PM | No Comment

Hi Sars,
 
Question for you! Why do Americans have wedding rehearsal dinners?I have seen the practice on movies/TV and wondered if it was just the movies? But then someone on your site asked a wedding-related question …

The Vine: July 12, 2007
July 12, 2007 – 2:18 PM | One Comment

Hi Sars,
 
I received a giant painting for a wedding present and it’s not my style. Besides a subject matter that doesn’t interest me (jazz musicians), the background is hot red-and-yellow tie-dye. The picture is …

The Vine: June 27, 2007
June 27, 2007 – 8:26 PM | No Comment

Hi Sars!
 
Longtime reader, first-time writer.I’m hoping you can offer some suggestions for handling this rather awkward situation.
 
I met my friend, Janet, just over three years ago when I started working with her.We started out as …

The Vine: June 14, 2007
June 14, 2007 – 7:06 PM | 121 Comments

Dear Mr. and Mrs. James Bunting,
How does that feel?
I am writing a business letter (probably my second ever) for work, and have been instructed to put the header as follows:
Mr. and Mrs. Stephen Anonymous
1455 ______ …