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The Vine: April 22, 2009
April 22, 2009 – 1:05 PM | 50 Comments

Hey Sars,
I can't shake these feelings I have for a guy.
We dated for less than three months in the summer of 2007 (geez is right). Met at work, started light flirtations, and then took the …

The Vine: April 15, 2009
April 15, 2009 – 3:33 PM | 71 Comments

Hang in there, taxable citizens.
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Dear Sars…I suspect this letter is more for your readers' input than your own, but it's a topic I need some unbiased and impersonal advice on.
It has to do with drinking, …

The Vine: April 1, 2009
April 1, 2009 – 4:37 PM | 36 Comments

Dear Sars,
I want to end a friendship without creating any animosity or ill feelings.I have been friends outside of work with someone I work fairly closely with, both in physical proximity and a lot of …

The Vine: March 25, 2009
March 25, 2009 – 1:22 PM | 17 Comments

Just one letter today; I'm traveling later and don't have as much time as I'd like.
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Dear Sars,
I have a close group of friends that I have hung out with since high school, and we've all …

The Vine: March 4, 2009
March 4, 2009 – 2:59 PM | 119 Comments

Hi Sars,
About five years ago, when I was younger and not so smart, I went out and got a tattoo on my lower back. (Like everyone else in the world.) Perhaps not surprisingly, I decided …

The Vine: February 18, 2009
February 18, 2009 – 7:25 PM | 106 Comments

Hi Sars,
This is somewhere between a language and a societal question, so I figure you're the perfect person to answer it.
What's up with straight women referring to their female friends as "girlfriend"?This is hardly a …

The Vine: January 21, 2009
January 21, 2009 – 5:05 PM | 65 Comments

Dear Sars,
I am looking for tips on how to become tougher. I've always found it hard to reconcile myself with the idea that some people don't like me, or disapprove of some things I do, …

The Vine: January 7, 2009
January 7, 2009 – 7:07 PM | 50 Comments

Hello Sars,
I write about the lovely Robert, who is not actually our landlord, but the legal caretaker for our absentee landlord's buildings and tenants (absentee landlord lives in Europe).I lived with three wonderful roommates in …

The Vine: October 29, 2008
October 29, 2008 – 1:11 PM | 62 Comments

Dear Sars,
I have reason to suspect my one of my coworkers is a pathological liar, but I can't be sure.

The Vine: October 22, 2008
October 22, 2008 – 11:15 AM | 47 Comments

Hi there,
I'm having a bit of an etiquette issue. I'm friends with a number of people who are part of a larger circle that could possibly and has been often described as hipster. That's fine. …