Dear Sarah,
Okay, I have this friend.This female friend.To her, we’re like the epitome of best friends, and she claims that I’m closer to her than anyone.I’m like, okay whatever, because I don’t really care.She says …

For the past year, I’ve been dating “Adam.”He’s a great guy – I adore him – but I’m starting to wonder about the future of our relationship.The problem is Adam’s sister “Anna.”Adam and Anna share …

Hi Sarah,
I have a problem for you and I hope you can help because I am completely out of ideas.
I’m 22, and after living with my parents for the last six months or so I’ve …

You’ve mentioned that you’ve done the long-distance love thing. Well, I’m in need of some advice.
I’ve been dating a great guy for about five months now. That’s going well – we really laugh at each …

Dear Sarah,
I have been reading Tomato Nation for some time now and never had a reason to write in until now.
My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for about five months now and …

Sarah,Libra woman needs to know that if Michael or Pete are dating anyone else, casually or seriously, they’re not telling her. Eighty percent or more of guys wouldn’t tell, and ninety percent of those who …

Dear Wise One,I’m in a real quandary on this one. I love your advice to others and think you’re right on, so I’d love to hear what you think I should do.
Since my last lover …

Sarah,I met a friend of one of my closest friends about five months ago. At the time I thought he was a really interesting person, but had no romantic notions at all. Since that time, …

Hmm.I have to disagree to some extent with your advice for Uncelebratory.Yes, we’re all adults, and learning to be comfortable with others in the family you’ve joined is part and parcel of being an adult.However, …

Dear God’s Gift to Intellect,
How do you say no to gifts?More specifically, how do you say “hell no” to the suggestion that it will be in your best interest to accept gifts from people in …